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Q
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Why don't Catholics eat meat on the Fridays of Lent? And if you give something up for Lent (say, chocolate) can you still have it on Sundays during Lent? Is there an 'official' stance on the subject?
    -M.S.

A:
Chocolate.
(You said "say, chocolate.")

Anyway, the history of giving up meat on the Fridays of Lent has been around for centuries and centuries. Some say it started with the apostles (they were fishermen, of course, and had something to gain if people had to eat fish every Friday!)...But whatever the case, abstaining from meat is something the early Christians were familiar with. 

Basically, when the tradition was started meat was a pretty exciting thing to eat; reserved mostly for festivities, special occasions, etc...It was eaten for celebrations. Thus, it was a sacrifice to go without it - but it's also symbolic in refraining from "festive" activities during the Fridays of Lent as a penance to mark these days as special. 

It's a small symbol; but a way to set apart Fridays as holy in remembrance of what was done on Good Friday. 

As for being able to eat chocolate (or whatever a person gives up during Lent) on Sundays - there isn't actually an 'official' stance that we have to give something up for Lent. So since the idea of giving something up for Lent is actually a voluntary thing, the exceptions to the rule (ie, Sundays) are also up to us.

The idea is that since every Sunday is a "mini-Easter", it's a day of celebration in the resurrection - not a day of penance. It's supposed to add a little extra joy to Sundays...not be a loophole so we can eat more chocolate.

Like most things Catholic, it's the meaning behind the gesture of giving something up that's important. It's why we do it. Not trying to figure out ways to get out of doing it...